In my experience, many people do not achieve their New Year’s resolutions because they don’t execute a high quality strategy to do so. After having worked with tens of thousands of people as a teacher, trainer and coach, I have found that there are ultimately three steps to making sure you actually resolve what you set out to in the new year.
The second mistake people make is that they don’t add leverage to their mission. If your New Year’s resolutions mean more to you, then you are more likely to follow through on them.
To create the highest amount of meaning for your resolutions, I suggest linking them to your mission in life. If you don’t know what your mission in life is, then I encourage you to begin with the questions below:
Reflect on the questions above while considering how your New Year’s resolution might help protect your ability to enjoy life.
It’s these kinds of thoughts that create the leverage necessary to heighten your commitment to your New Year’s resolution.
People will set goals such as losing 20 pounds, but will not have a clear and concise plan for how to get there. This can lead to frustration. I would encourage focusing more on the factors that are within your direct control.
For example, commit to exercise three times a week, and eating well 80% of the time. If you follow those behaviours, you will eventually experience the desirable outcomes. However, if your focus was to lose 20 pounds in one month, you could do everything right but then feel like you failed because your target had an unrealistic time frame, and you only lost 10 pounds that month, rather than 20. As a wise man once said, “If you focus on results, you won’t see change. But if you focus on change, you will see results.”
Most people do not follow through on their New Year’s resolutions because they fall asleep at the wheel, and slip back into their old habits. Accountability to a friend, family, co-worker, or even coach in the area of fitness and health will greatly increase your chance of success.
Being accountable to someone else will increase your adherence to your resolution, and greatly improve your chance of success. For example, if you are feeling tired and unmotivated, it’s quite possible that you might decide to skip exercise for that day. However, if you have an appointment to meet with a workout buddy or a fitness trainer, then you are more likely to go regardless, just so that you don’t let them down.
Let’s face it, if you had the self motivation, you’d likely be where you want to be right now. Being accountable to someone else will motivate you far beyond what you would do on your own.
For increased accountability, consider the following options:
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